January 1, 2010 by Michelle
I saw a 'news' segment on TV tonight about parent's coddling their babies. From baby helmets, to USB keys carrying around information about your child, we seem to be raising a generation of cottonwool children.
Seriously, when is too much too much?
From banning Big Ears from sleeping in Noddy's house, to changing the words of Humpty Dumpty so that children won't develop a complex about the King's men not being able to put Humpty together again, the world as surely gone mad! Political correctness and parents wanting to shelter their kids from the 'big, bad world' – when will it stop??
It is ridiculous to think that if we wrap our kids up in cottonwool, we will protect them from all the dangers of the world. I mean, what happens when they get their first jobs? Their boss isn't going to stop using red pen just because it might have repercussions or affect their self esteem!
All that will happen is that we will raise a generation of spoilt, pansy kids who are going to get the shock of their lives when they start work in the real world. And then whose fault is that? Come on, let's get real and let our kids experience life – otherwise society will be forever paying for our over-protectiveness.
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October 11, 2009 by Michelle
As a first time mother I am finding that I am dealing with guilt on a fairly regular basis.
Am I spending enough time with my daughter?
Is she learning enough from myself and my husband?
Are we doing enough activities to facilitate her development?
Am I right in going back to work and putting her into childcare?
Trying to get a few businesses off the ground plus juggling being a mother and a wife comes with its challenges. There are so many competing pressures from society to do everything and do it well, that we sometimes can feel like our efforts are not sufficient.
Speaking to other mothers, we all seem to face the same questions, the same issues. And the same guilty feelings. And I have to keep reminding myself that I’m not alone in facing these pressures. It’s how we deal with these pressures that is important.
And I have decided that I am going to do things "my way". Not society’s way, or the way that other people may think that I should do things. But my way. And as long as I try my best to do what is right for my family, then that the is the best that I can do. I may crash and burn doing it, but at least I would have given it a shot under my rules. I am going to shut my ears to the naysayers and to the people who ’think’ they are giving me good advice and do what I believe in. This way I stay true to myself and what I believe in.
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